BFF Lesbian Social Club
Making lesbian friends shouldn't be this hard.
A friendship-first lesbian community for all ages, from everywhere. Social events, retreats and an online community, built around genuine connection.
No cliques. No dating pressure. No club scene.
40+
events run
Thousands
of lesbians met in person
4
retreats so far
Hundreds
of online members
Worldwide
guests fly in from the US & Europe
Find your way in
Three ways to find your people
Online
Weekly Monday calls, a book club and daily chats with lesbians around the world. Perfect if there's no queer scene near you.
Join onlineRetreats
A few days away with a small group of lesbians. Walks, great food, cosy evenings, and strangers who leave as friends.
See retreatsSocials
Monthly pub nights, wine nights and walks. Come alone, most people do. You won't be alone for long.
See eventsThis is BFF
A note from Emilie
It started with a dinner
After a big break-up, I realised how few lesbian friends I had. I wasn't going to find them on dating apps or in a club, so I organised a dinner in Bristol and hoped a few people would turn up.
They did. And it turns out so many of us were looking for exactly the same thing: friendship, belonging, and a place to just be ourselves.
Two years later, BFF has brought together thousands of lesbians at socials, retreats and online. I can't wait for you to be part of it.
Emilie x
Read my storyIn their words
Friends, not followers
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Now some of my closest friends are people I met through BFF.
Socials
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This week has been beyond anything I could have hoped for. I've laughed until I couldn't breathe… it's been a week that I will never forget.
Retreats
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This has been a lifeline for me.
Online community
Coming up
Upcoming retreats
Lesbian Christmas in Wales
Four days in a farmhouse near the Brecon Beacons. Winter walks, two private chefs, a proper Christmas dinner, Lesbian Secret Santa, and a group of lesbians who'll feel like old friends by Thursday.
- When 30 Nov – 3 Dec 2026
- From £650, all meals & activities
- Group Max. 15 guests
2027
Wales
Details coming soon
2027
Spain
Details coming soon
2027
Slovenia
Details coming soon
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